A real women wouldn't sell herself short at all. always put what you know is right first . I wonder what is this generation of young women actually doing. I see they are using there body as a tool to get what they want and I think that is crazy. I know at least once everyone has settled for less or had to do something that they really didn't want to do.But I think that we as real women need to try our best and guide our young women in progress to really know there self worth. I think they we owe them this cause this seems to be a F*CKED up generation. I myself am trying this inspite of me having a 16-year old run-away daughter, who smokes weed  pops pills and is sexually active. I believe that even when your own children are what seems to be out of control don't stop doing what you know is right. my daughter is out in the street being grown but I have vowed not to stop being there for my friends daughters as well as my 13-year old daughter and my god- daughter. I think I would be less then a women if I didn't make there business my business. at some point when all this stuff was going with my daughter I thought that i had failed, but God reassured me that  I must go on inspite of her actions. don't get me wrong I love my daughter very much, and I miss her but I must keep my head up in order to continue on pleasing God. I no that my God is not a God of mistakes and I look forward to the restoral of our mother/daughter relationship oneday soon.I am really in a bad place right now with the holidays right aroung the cornerbut my God has made me a warrior and not by mistake so I will Survive. May God continue to bless all that reads this .