The Poignant and Epic Saga of Lauren Last Post: 931 days, 17 hours ago   
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Sep 29, 2005 | 10:55PM

I may have mentioned previously that I am not a big fan of the graduate program I attend to earn my Masters Degree in Special Education.  However, it is the most affordable option for me, so I stick with it, despite its mediocrity (and that's probably being generous).  

A week ago from Tuesday, I think my graduate experience hit a new low.  Some background info:  My Tuesday class is about transition planning from special education to post-high school life.  In all honesty, this topic could be covered in 2-3 class sessions, but they've managed to develop an entire semester's worth of "instruction" around it.  Anyway, the professor for this course is a sweet but somewhat ditsy middle-aged woman.  The first day of class she spent at least 20 minutes telling us about how she used to teach at the university, but the class sizes got too big, so she left, but then she came back, but the class sizes got to big again, so she left, and then she came back again, and . . . yeah.  She talks very quietly and gets sidetracked very easily, meaning that we never get out of class before 9:15 pm. 

There is a group of 4 girls and one guy who sit in the back and talk fairly loudly throughout the class.  They also frequently laugh, and make no effort to control their volume.  Although I'm not particularly interested in what the teacher is saying, I still find this very annoying, as do many other members of the class.  So during this particular session, the teacher asks them at one point if they had a question.  It didn't seem she was doing this snidely; I think she actually thought they had a question.  The ringleader said no and then they went back to talking, with no change in their volume.  We took a break at around 8:30, during which at least 10 people left.  Here's the crazy part:  When the break was over, the teacher asked if everyone could move forward so she wouldn't have to talk as loud.  The ringleader said, "No, we like sitting in the back."  The rest of the class pretty much stopped.  The teacher, to her credit, responded, "Well, I don't like you talking while I'm talking."  The ringleader stood up with her little gang, and they started to move forward as she said, "Well we'll move up, but we're not going to stop talking." 

Wait, it gets better.

A woman sitting a couple of seats ahead of me said audibly, "Well, that was rude."  The ringleader turned around and said, "What did you say, statistics girl?" (She was addressing a different woman who is an avid participant, somewhat annoyingly so, but at least not rudely!).  This woman then turned around and said incredulously "Was she talking about me?!?"  Apparently (I later heard this from another student in the class), the ringleader then called this woman a "white b*tch." 

There was a moment of awkward silence, and then the class kind of resumed discussion of the night's topic.  Like many of the others, though, I could not believe what had just happened.  I was under the impression that I had graduated middle school 11 years ago!  Can you believe that this is a GRADUATE CLASS for educating TEACHERS?  And that this person is probably working in a classroom right now?  No wonder there's an educational crisis.

 

Word of the Day:

dapper (adj.) - attractive in dress
 

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taffy70 Read taffy70 Gold Member Grabnormal
September 30, 2005 @ 1:01AM
 

My family was so poor there was only one dapper child.

I suppose I'll have to explain this one - "daps" are trainers in Wales - altho mostly used by the older generation - like my dad.
This results in teenage "rolling eyes" convos in my house when my dad says he likes Jessicas daps. "Trainers, Bampi, they're TRAINERS!"
lex Read lex Gold Member Grabnormal
September 30, 2005 @ 7:31AM
 
Y'all better hold yer noses when y'all are changin' the dapper of mah baby.
d0rk Read d0rk Grabnormal
September 30, 2005 @ 8:36AM
 
I'm gonna comment about the rest of your post and not just the word of the day... =P

I'm in my third year of university, but I'm taking a first year elective night class. With the size of the class, I deal with about 50 talkers every week and holy cow is it ever frustrating, so I feel your pain. But I'm not happy to learn that this doesn't seem to go away in later years for some people. That's just ridiculous.
deuce Read deuce Gold Member Grabnormal
September 30, 2005 @ 9:49AM
 
That there buffalo wing tastes like heaven if you dapper with a little ranch dressing, honey.

And welcome to Hooter's!
lex Read lex Gold Member Grabnormal
September 30, 2005 @ 9:52AM
 
d0rk, thank you, on behalf of my wife. She worries that no one reads the posts themselves and everyone zips straight to the Word of the Day. Thank you for providing her with some reassurance :)
taffy70 Read taffy70 Gold Member Grabnormal
September 30, 2005 @ 11:15AM
 
NO NO I read her posts honest - i laugh myself silly sometimes
sorry lauren :( I will make an effort to comment more
Abigail Read Abigail Gold Member Grabnormal
September 30, 2005 @ 2:23PM
 
Stuff like that puts a knot in my stomach and makes me clench my fists. First of all, I'm mad that there are actually people who behave that way - grown adults, no less. Grown, EDUCATED adults, no less. As you pointed out, it blows my mind that these people are actually responsible for teaching others, heaven forbid, children.

SECONdly, it ticks me off - maybe even a bit more - that they get away with this stuff! Rude and obnoxious behavior like that seems to happen more and more, and we all drop our jaws in unison. But why in the world would that teacher not boot those people from her class? I just don't get it. And if the system doesn't allow for that, then there is a flaw in the system.

Man my blood is boiling. I wish I could be in charge for JUST a little while...hehe. ;)
taffy70 Read taffy70 Gold Member Grabnormal
October 03, 2005 @ 8:17AM
 
I've just re-read this and it makes me wonder what discipline they have in their own classrooms!

Lauren, you were very restrained - I would have had to put my oar in and told them what I thought -well depending on how big they were!
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