She who sits on fence, gets splinters in crotch....
FIRST, let me start by saying I DESERVED THE PENALTY BOX, I was cyber-cussing at someone who had JUST THREATENED ME in private chat and who was going off on me because ... while in private chat, trying to get this person to leave the upsetting scenerio she was in instead of THREATENING others, A DROP DOWN AD booted me from the game (I had been in less than five minutes...) and when booted from game, booted from chat- PRIVATE OR PUBLIC, you're gone... leaving the person speaking to you NOW IN PUBLIC chat, with no warning.
This has happened to me on four past occasions and all were different degrees of embarrassing. Twice, it left me center ring chat, saying a 'person specific' sentence of which I would have rather kept private. AND since the person who was EXPOSED in an arena she is usually careful not to leave evidence in ... she popped off in a tyriad upon me.
FIRST A TAD BIT OF 'THE STORY BEHIND'' THIS BLACK SUNDAY...
Now in recent weeks, she has been accused of threatening people and their children in private chat, causing a great deal of hatred and targeting at her. A VERY DEAR FRIEND OF MINE, WAS IN ATTENDANCE DURING ONE OF THE ONSLAUGHT OF THREATS SHE MADE TO A VERY DECENT WOMAN AND HER SON, promising to bodily harm both ... and my friend respectfully gave me the facts she had and was checking with me to see where I stood if the people threatened protected themselves as well as report the person and her deeds to staff.
Since that day ohh two or so weeks ago, I made it clear, that I was taking no sides since the person accused had up to now, not had any FALLBACKS ON HER PAST UGLY DEEDS. I told my very upset dear friend (understandable) that until I witnessed or had absolute proof of such behavior, I would be 'sitting on the fence' not supporting or deserting either person. FOR ONCE, I TOOK A VERY NEUTRAL UNINVOLVED POSITION WHILE THESE TWO TOOK THE ACTIONS THEY TOOK...
So without further unending details of those two weeks, that TAKES US TO the place I was in when entering a game where both camps were already multi-tasking in games.... The person whom had 'CHANGED HER LIFE, AND HER BEHAVIOR' was in a rage and started to private chat to me the instant I hit the room, which was ok. Now upon hearing how irate she already was and THAT SHE FELT LIKE THREATENING THE FOUR PEOPLE , I told her sternly, not to do that, and that really it was past time she exited the game for her sake and all who were involved. She stated she wanted to stay and 'fix' them good instead... SO I AGAIN STERNLY TOLD HER IT WAS BEST FOR HER TO EITHER LEAVE, OR 'PLAY DARK' meaning she should simply disable her chat and play the damn game.
Now here is about the moment the drop ad swallowed me up and little miss THANG proceeded to type something2prove that she indeed was guilty of the crimes she had been accused of. This blew her bubble gum mind because she had so meticulously and painstakinly taken care to NEVER EVER have her black hearted words in the public arena to be recorded and attached to her. WELL NOW IT HAD FINALLY BIT HER IN THE ASS HARD, and she was screaming at me all now in public how she hated me and this was all my fault and how could i do that to her ... BLAH BLAH BLAH.
TO which my response was that SHE was the only one to blame if she had said something she shouldn't have and that the only one at fault for her predicament was her. That she had clear choices and had someone making sure she new those choices (me) and that she made her decision to stay in the 'antagonizer' arena anyway.
THEN IT HAPPENED, SHE DID IT NOT ONLY IN FRONT OF ME TO OTHERS, BUT TO ME AS WELL. SHE THREATENED ME. 'Be careful Risa or I will come after you!!!' to which I replied with a chuckle "Bring your damn lunch and come on then..." Now she was threatening harm to those in the other camp, both by private chat and public, minding her watch for a moderator to arrive at the same time.
WELL I DIDN'T CARE WHO CAME IN THEN BECAUSE I HAVE SUPPORTED THIS PERSON AND HER 'QUEST TO BE A DIFFERENT AND BETTER LUC' since the day she decided to take it on... not once abandoning her, or coddling her, or ignoring her. AND SHE HAD NOW PROVEN SHE LIED TO ME WHEN ASKED OF THE EARLIER ACCUSATIONS AND THAT SHE WAS WILLING, YES WILLING, TO BE A TERRORIST. A BULLY, A PSYCHO AND TO PURPOSELY BREED ANGER AND CONTEMPT AND HATRED AND FEAR FROM THESE PEOPLE!!!! why? (please now refer to my profile 'saying' ... "WHY ASK WHY")
It was at this point that I started giving her some back... telling her it's her fault, it's her doing and 'DO YOU F**KING GET IT??' twice to her... with of course the moderator in the room. I saw him, but, as he knows was gonna do what I was gonna do. I give no apologies here, I expect to pay for my actions, he knows that too. SHE SHOULD EXPECT TO PAY FOR HERS, YET, WENT UNPUNISHED ... YES AGAIN. THE BLOG SHE WROTE WAS LEFT UP ALL DAY, it is a clear and honest look at what EVERYONE here past and present, member or staff has had to deal with. IS STILL DEALING WITH.
Now I do believe Abigail, that when she was issued an 'OFFICIAL SECOND CHANCE' that she herself said to you that should she EVER COMMIT THE HORRIBLE CRIMES AGAINST OTHERS HERE AS SHE HAD IN THE PAST, that she would expect and even welcome being banished for good. I know this because like I said, day one and all details of the whole character morphis I was there offered to me. Hold her to it.
Your staff has had around 100 reports and complaints in the last two weeks on her, which I was told were ignored. I fear now that they may have been either ignored or just put in someones 'does not exist' file. I think, that if it is the well being of the body of GRAB that is more important on the WHOLE than the well being of the one at GRAB.is your priority, then know now, the well being of all here is at risk if the one stays.
She needs TONS more treatment, and manners and humanity skills, and honesty. SHE IS A PAST OFFENDER AND A PRESENT OFFENDER AS WELL AS A PRESENT DANGER TO HERSELF AND YES, TO OTHERS. You can't fix her. I can't fix her. She can't either at present time, can she. What I witnessed yesterday was gutwrenching and I have to tell you, her onslaught and descriptive presence of harm is A LIABILITY to all. It saddens me to say it. I really had the highest hopes for this girl and her goals, keeping in mind her mental illness. I thought had truly left behind the senseless terrorizing ways of her past. NOPE. SHE SEEMS TO FEEL QUITE COMFORTABLE WITH THAT DEEPLY EVIL PART. She willingly chose to stay and be that of evil rather than to stay or go and be that of decent.
YOUR GRAB BODY OF MEMBERS want to know how, IF, this problem is going to be dealt with, that's all they want. YOUR GRAB SINGLE MEMBER wants to stay, hoping that it will continue to NOT BE dealt with, acting to you as if she were innocent. and hey, she might be. She has three PARTS of her or personalities to date. Maybe poor Luc had nothing to do with it and Elvie or Annus was to blame. DOESN'T MATTER. SHOULDN'T matter, not on a gaming site. Not for any reason should anyone be threatened OR HAVE THEIR KID THREATENED.
Ok that's me and you caught up. I have to go phone my kids and tell them to carry their recon gear incase mommy beats the terrorist at one of her games... ROFLMAO good thing my high wheels scores aren't too high... YET.
oops, nearly forgot the motto of this blog... "SHE WHO SITS ON FENCE IS GUARANTEED TO WALK FUNNY NEXT DAY!" and I am... ouch, eew dang owe. shoot.....
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