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Pet Peeves
Sep 07, 2005 | 12:08PM
Long weekend is over, didn't really do much over it... brought Todd up to Santa Barbara for the weekend, so hubby could play house-husband while I worked on some stuff on campus. We had a lot of fun playing family with our little man in our apartment :-D

I thought about doing another quiz and posting the results here, but I couldn't really find an interesting one (or one that's appropriate for Grab ;-)). I'll just have to wait and see what my other blogging friends come up with, and continue the meme that way :-)

Meantime, I thought I'd write about my pet peeves. There's been a number of threads in Grab Bag on this subject, and each time, I've always said pretty much the same thing-- so I thought, "Why not consolidate them into my blog?" Also, we've had the "I Love" meme... why not make a list of things I don't love? ;-) So here goes...

Things that annoy Helly to no end:

Some traffic-related ones:
1. People who don't use turn signals in traffic

2. People who use turn signals, but then forget to turn them OFF once they've changed lanes

3. People who cruise in the passing lane. There's nothing more frustrating than trying to pass a slow car in the right lane-- only to have an equally-slow car blocking your attempts in the left lane! In Germany, cruising in the passing lane is a big no-no. I'm not sure if it's actually illegal or not, but it's certainly frowned down upon big time!

4. Drivers on cell phones. In Germany (and maybe other parts of Europe), it is illegal to talk on cell phones (unless using "hands-free" sets) while driving. You could get charged with a whopper of a fine if caught. I hope that the US follows suit with similar laws soon. It's not only annoying to be near a car that (at best) is traveling too slow but dangerous when driving by a car that is (at worst) swerving from lane to lane because the driver is yapping away on a cell phone. These drivers are no safer than drunk drivers-- they don't focus all their attention where it needs to be-- on the road. Hands-free sets are there for a reason. Use them.

5. Rubberneckers (a.k.a. looky-loos) It boggles the mind how an accident on ONE side of the freeway manages to clog up traffic on BOTH sides.

6. People who can't park properly. Especially when parking spots are hard to come by. Especially when a bleepin' behemoth SUV or truck takes up 1.5 spots, causing a chain reaction of cars that are likewise parked stupidly!

7. Daytime running lights. Whoever thought up that they would be "safer" was sadly mistaken. Today's cars come equipped with headlights bright enough to fry your eyeballs. Have you ever had a car with "daytime running lights" approach you from the opposite direction? Yes, it's true that you're able to see the car coming from farther away. But as you get closer, those darn things can blind you-- even in broad daylight. How is that supposed to enhance safety?

Others:
8. Misspelling the word "ensure" as "insure". I swear, if I had a penny for every time I've seen this particular error, I could retire in the Bahamas right now. The thing that cracks me up is that the Preamble to our Constitution also misspells it this way: "... to insure domestic tranquility..." I wonder if our Founding Fathers had any inkling of what the premiums on such insurance would eventually cost? ;-)

9. Cashiers who chat with customers they personally know. It's one thing to have a brief greeting exchange, but it really irks me when they start having an entire conversation that slows the cashier down in his/her work, and holds the rest of us up! If you want to talk to your friend, do so during your break, don't delay the rest of us just because you want to yap at your friend!

10. Getting change from cashiers. Ah yes, the age-old peeve. Cashiers, it's a consensus: change first, then bills on top. Please.

11. People who "shout" by WRITING IN ALL CAPS. If you don't want to bother with proper capitalization, just write in all lowercase. It's much easier on the eyes, and it's NOT SHOUTING :-P

(a sidenote: after typing this all up, I couldn't help but notice how I have more traffic/vehicle-related peeves. I'm sure I'm not the only one who feels this way. Is this why Americans seem to be so consumed with road rage out there? Hmmmm...)
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xPink_Icex Gradmirable
September 07, 2005 @ 1:13PM
 
He he interesting pet peeves. The talking and cashier onw in so true!

Take care.

Jodie x
taffy70 Read taffy70 Gold Member Grabnormal
September 07, 2005 @ 2:35PM
 
haha
*pictures Helly tapping her foot and sighing while cashier chats

driving whilst talking on your mobile phone is illegal in Britain now - doesnt stop some people tho

Lisa xx

p.s glad you joined in on the fun today - I havent stopped giggling all day!!
hellykwee Read hellykwee Gold Member Grabnormal
September 07, 2005 @ 2:48PM
 
*tapping foot, sighing, and throwing dirty looks at the cashier and her friend* ;-)

p.s. I've got tears in my eyes from all the laughter today-- do you have any idea how hard it is to stifle my giggles so my co-workers won't think I'm crazy? :-)
ricangrl Read ricangrl Grabnormal
September 08, 2005 @ 8:30AM
 
*with her mouth open* I cant believe it, we have the same thing in common. Do I love Grab, yes!

Im just curious, what else do you dislike?

lmao

Iris
hellykwee Read hellykwee Gold Member Grabnormal
September 08, 2005 @ 10:57AM
 
Haha-- wow, Iris. And here I was, thinking I'm being overly picky with all my peeves.... Glad to know I'm not the only one!

What else? Hmmm... I can't think of any right now, though I'm sure there's more little things out there that bug me :-) If I think of any more, I'll be sure to update this entry! :-D
julie1978 Read julie1978 Grabnormal
September 14, 2005 @ 11:35AM
 
Now, come on....I can understand cashiers who talk and end up going slow because they're too busy carrying on a conversation with the person in line, but there are quite a few out there whose pace doesn't slow a bit when they're talking. I'm one of those!!! And, when I count back your change, I count it back properly! I tell you what the change amounts to and then count up to the size of the bill you gave me.

But, I can completely go with you on the cell phone drivers one!!!! Nice....
hellykwee Read hellykwee Gold Member Grabnormal
September 14, 2005 @ 11:42AM
 
hehe, why can't I encounter cashiers like you, Julie? ;-) I certainly didn't mean to rag on ALL cashiers who chat while working... just those who slow down because of it :-P And I have gone through some cashiers' lanes (bless them) who do put the change on the bottom, which makes it sooo much easier for me to put the money back in my wallet! Besides, I bet you could probably rant about inconsiderate customers who continue yapping on their phones while going through the line :-D

'course, nowadays I rarely pay cash anyway (credit cards), so I guess the cash thing is less of an issue for me :)
julie1978 Read julie1978 Grabnormal
September 14, 2005 @ 9:27PM
 
You have absolutely NO IDEA about the hell that we cashiers go through with people who yap on their phones while you're trying to ask them if they want their milk in a bag.....don't even get me started!!!!! LOL
hellykwee Read hellykwee Gold Member Grabnormal
September 15, 2005 @ 10:06AM
 
I sure can sympathize, though-- they annoy ME, and, being just another customer in line behind them, I don't have to actually *deal* with them. I feel for you! :)
grabqabakp Read grabqabakp Gold Member Grabnormal
September 16, 2005 @ 12:46PM
 
insure, ensure and assure - always make me crazy because I'm never sure which to use. So here, from Answers.com is an answer:

USAGE NOTE Assure, ensure, and insure all mean “to make secure or certain.” Only assure is used with reference to a person in the sense of “to set the mind at rest”: assured the leader of his loyalty. Although ensure and insure are generally interchangeable, only insure is now widely used in American English in the commercial sense of “to guarantee persons or property against risk.”

From here: http://www.answers.com/main/ntquery?method=4&dsid=1555&dekey=A0479500&gwp=8&curtab=1555_1&linktext=%3CSPAN%20class%3Dkw%3Eassure%3C%2FSPAN%
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