I was about 15 when I first read The Prophet by Kahlil Gibran and I must admit that I didn’t understand a whole lot of things.
There was a prophet who traveled round the world until he reached the city of Orphalese, where the citizens asked him to talk about a variety of things.
Among the things he said about love there was the following….
“Love gives naught but itself and takes naught but from itself.
Love possesses not nor would it be possessed,
For love is sufficient unto love.
When you love you should not say ‘God is in my heart’,
But rather ‘I am in the heart of God’.
And think not you can direct the course of love,
For love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course.”
It took me 10 years and many failed relationships to understand what the prophet was talking about!
I remember growing up believing that there is a knight on a white horse waiting to sweep me off my feet! I grew up believing that I would hear music and fireworks when I would first kiss a guy. And it was all true! My first kiss was magical! But what followed it disappointed me!
The relationship disappointed me to some much extend that I came to believe that there is no true love and a mate for life.
Over the years I became a true cynical example of our times! I dated a lot and when ever I got bored of someone I stopped seeing him without an explanation (of course there were 1 or 2 serious relationships only to verify that there is no true love).
My friends all said that I haven’t found the right person yet and I will change my mind when he comes along!
Recently I’ve meet someone and I’m thinking over some of my views, but still I’m afraid that I am right and there is no true love.
God, I hope I’m wrong!