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the queen and the first lady
Apr 02, 2009 | 4:54AM

WHAT ON EARTH IS ALL THE FUSS ABOUT, I DONT THINK THE QUEEN MINDED AT ALL AS SHE TO PUT HER ARM AROUND THE FIRST LADY

I THROUGHT IT WAS REALLY SWEET 

The rules are set in stone, and so the eagerly watching British media sputtered when the First Lady of the United States, Michelle Obama, briefly put her hand on the back of Queen Elizabeth II as the two chatted at a reception. Etiquette is quite stern about this ("Whatever you do, don't touch the Queen!"). In 2007 John Howard, then Prime Minister of Australia, got plenty of criticism for apparently putting his arm around the Queen to direct her through a crowd. He denied actually touching her, but photographs suggest that he came quite close. (Another former Australian Prime Minister did put his hand on the Queen in a similar circumstance and was later branded "the Lizard of Oz.")

Of course, there are corollaries to this. One must certainly touch the Queen if the monarch offers her hand (though you should return this not with a firm handshake but just a touch). On Wednesday, Michelle Obama put her hand on the Queen only after the Queen had placed her own hand on the First Lady's back as part of their conversation. So there is room for theological argument as to whether the American reciprocity of touch was allowable given the social dynamics of the situation. (Less explicable was when President George W. Bush winked at the Queen.) Still, the sight of anyone apparently touching the Queen with anything more than a limp handshake is enough to send the British (or traditionalists in the old Commonwealth) twittering.

Another defense for Michelle Obama, of course, is that she is not a subject of the Queen. (Australians, despite referendums attempting to turn themselves into a republic, still recognize the Queen as their head of state.) The First Lady of the United States is not required to curtsy before her or any other crowned head. In any case, the touch lasted just a second or two, and the Queen did not seem particularly perturbed — though she appeared slightly surprised as she drew away.

So where does this rule about not touching the Queen come from? The sovereigns of England and France at some point in their nations' long histories claimed a divine right to rule, a right often amplified by titles bestowed by the Pope in Rome. (The Queen, in fact, still has the title Defender of the Faith, an honor given to Henry VIII before he broke with the Catholic Church and established the Church of England.) That touch of holiness once gave the occupant of the throne the supposed ability to cure certain diseases — most famously, scrofula, a terrible skin ailment that was called "the king's evil." Thus, the miraculous contact had to be conserved. And so, whether a touch or a nod or a gaze, royal favor, like that of God, is not a subject's on demand; it is dispensed by kingly prerogative

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UPDATE
Jan 30, 2009 | 4:56PM

Amanda my daughter friend is doing really well, she is now awake fully sitting up and talking, but not a lot as her face is painful i said in my last post about her face being fractured well in fact she has a fractured eye socket and skull and 2 other fractures to the face, as well as all the other injuries. she will be in hospital for around another 2 weeks as she has to have complete bed rest due to the damage to her spleen and kidneys,

she is truly amazing young lady, so brave and so lucky every one who know Amanda are truly blessed to have her in their lives. and we all have to thank god for watching over her.

what has [censored]ed us all off is that...

The driver of the car that hit her has for some reason been let off,

please would you all be so kind as to continue with you preys for Amanda

thank you

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Request
Jan 23, 2009 | 9:52AM

Please please please would you all say a prey for my daughters friend, she was hit by a car last night she has a fractured skull bruising to the brain, fractured face, large and deep cut to her forehead, her spleen is bleeding and she also has damage to her kidneys, She is responding a tiny bit but its early days

The Driver has been arrested but not charged at yet

so if you all could please spare a minute for a sweet beautiful 13 year old girl i will be forever grateful

Thank you xxx

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my sister jeannette and my kids
Nov 22, 2008 | 4:02PM

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2 faced
Nov 20, 2008 | 2:58PM

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THIS kitten may not have nine lives –but  

he was born with TWO faces.

The cute little critter has dual faces and incredibly can meow out of both at the same time.

It has baffled vets in Perth, Australia, who delivered it after its mother had complications with the birth.

“I have seen cats with two tails and extra legs, but not this,” said one.

The two-faced feline was one of three in a litter and appears to be doing well.

It has not got a name yet, but the owner is reportedly thinking of calling it Quasi Modo.

The vet who delivered the kitten is positive the cat will survive.

“It has a full tummy and it survived the night so that is a good sign. It seems content, it meows and purrs."

The kitten eats out of just one mouth because of a cleft palate, but meows out of both simultaneously.

It's just more mouths to feed for the kitten's poor mother!

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A short life of misery and pain
Nov 13, 2008 | 4:20AM

Two men have been found guilty of causing or allowing the death of a 17-month-old boy. The child's mother had already admitted allowing or causing the child's death.

The trial highlighted a catalogue of missed opportunities to save his life and the case has chilling echoes of the death of Victoria Climbie.

 

On 2 August 2007 police announced they were dropping an investigation into allegations of child abuse they had launched the previous December.

Baby P's mother was elated and told social workers she would go home to hug her son and bake cakes.

The next morning he was dead.

Baby P, who cannot be named for legal reasons, was pronounced dead shortly after midday on 3 August at the North Middlesex Hospital in Edmonton, north London.

But it was already clear when an ambulance arrived at his Tottenham home 45 minutes earlier that he had been dead for some time.

His mother described him in her 999 call as "blue, cold and stiff." In his short life he had suffered repeated - and unexplained - injuries.

The post-mortem examination revealed Baby P had suffered:

• Eight broken ribs and a broken back, with another area of bleeding around the spine at neck level.

• Numerous bruises, cuts and abrasions, including a deep tear to his left ear lobe, which had been pulled away from his head.

• Severe lacerations to the top of his head, including a large gouge which could have been caused by a dog bite.

• Blackened finger- and toenails, with several nails missing; the middle finger of his right hand was without a nail and its tip was also missing, as if it had been sliced off.

• A tear to his fraenulum, the strip of skin between the middle of the upper lip and the gum, which had partially healed.

• One of his front teeth had also been knocked out and was found in his colon. He had swallowed it.

The jury was not shown photographs of the child's actual injuries because it would be too upsetting but was shown computer generated images of his injuries.

 Baby P's head injuries, as recreated on a graphical representation
The jury were shown computer generated images of Baby P's injuries
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His mother, who is now 27, told her GP in September 2006 that her son "bruises easily" and she was worried she might be accused of hurting him.

The following month she returned to see Dr Jerome Iqwueke and explained away bruises on the child, saying he had fallen down the stairs the day before.

On 11 December 2006 Dr Iqwueke saw the child again and noticed more bruises, none of which the mother could adequately explain.

He immediately referred Baby P to paediatric specialists at the Whittington Hospital, where doctors concluded the marks suggested non-accidental injury.

Haringey social services were notified, Baby P was put on the child protection register and a police investigation began.

Five days later he was released into the care of Angela Godfrey, a close friend of the mother.

At the end of January 2007 social services decided to return Baby P to the family home.

Dr Heather Mackinnon, the paediatric consultant in charge of Baby P's care at the Whittington, said she had been unable to attend various case conferences concerning him but had made her report available.

'Systemic failure'

She said she would not have supported returning the child to his family.

She also said she did not receive the minutes of any of the meetings until after Baby P's death eight months later - something she described as "clearly a systemic failure".

Dr Mackinnon said many of those involved in the case felt sorry for the mother and she said there was "a collective thinking that this was more likely to be neglect rather than deliberate injury - which was not my view".

The police officer investigating the suspected abuse, Detective Constable Angela Slade, said she had also been opposed to Baby P returning to the family home because her investigation had not been completed.

But she said she was told by social services the mother was working well with them and a delay in returning would affect the re-integration of the family.

Social services had also been given assurances - which proved worthless - that the mother was living alone and there was no man in the house who could have inflicted the injuries.

During the trial the mother admitted this was a lie.

 
The death of Baby P has chilling echoes of the Victoria Climbie case
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The court heard that her 32-year-old boyfriend, who cannot be named for legal reasons, was frequently left in charge of Baby P and the first injuries coincided with his growing involvement in the household.

Baby P was taken to hospital twice more, in April and June 2007, with unexplained cuts and bruises.

The mother lied to social worker Maria Ward that she was away, which delayed a home visit for another six weeks.

When Ms Ward saw Baby P for the last time, a few days before his death, she found him sitting in his buggy, with a sore ear, a gauze over his finger and chocolate smeared over his face and hands.

Two prosecution witnesses claimed the mother and boyfriend had deliberately spread the chocolate on his face to hide bruises.

Baby P's final two weeks of life were marked by an escalation of the violence against him.

On 25 July Dr Iqwueke received a call from the mother, requesting his help to get social services "off her back".

When she brought the child in the following day the doctor noticed he was "withdrawn" and avoided contact.

'Miserable and cranky'

The prosecution claimed the child's back and ribs would have been broken before 1 August, when his mother took him to a child development clinic at St Ann's Hospital where he was seen by Dr Sabah Al-Zayyat.

In a police interview Dr Al-Zayyat said she had been unable to carry out a full physical examination because he was "miserable and cranky".

But in court she said Baby P only cried for a minute or so before she began her physical examination and he was in the room with her for over an hour.

Asked why she apparently changed her evidence she replied that the police had not asked her the right question at the time.

Dr Al-Zayyat denied his back could have been broken when she saw him.

It emerged during the trial that the mother had been placed on a parenting course, had been given stair gates, a fireplace guard and, even, shortly before his death, an offer of a seaside holiday.

This is not the first time Haringey social services has come under the spotlight.

In February 2000 eight-year-old Victoria Climbie was killed in Tottenham after a number of failings by Haringey social services and other agencies.

 

 

 

Some of the people and professionals that should be held accountable for Baby P's death;

The Mother-- TRACEY CONNELLY
The Boyfriend---STEVEN BARKER
The Lodger---JASON OWEN
The Social Worker in charge of his case, Maria Ward
Police and Crown Prosecution Service - forfailing to charge mother on two occassions.
Haringey Council
Social services
Childrens Services
One of the Doctors-- Dr Sabab Al Zayyat--WHO FAILED TO EXAMINE BABY PETER WHEN HE ATTENDED ST ANN'S HOSPITAL 2 DAYS BEFORE HIS DEATH

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t44869887577_1664413_6783.jpg picture by siandeeDoctor who failed to notice antthing wrong

t44869887577_1664415_6942.jpg picture by siandeeSocial worker who failed baby p

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WHO'S YOU'RE DADDY ????
Nov 08, 2008 | 7:46PM

I got this blog  WHO'S YOU'RE DADDY ???? from lilmothertrucker page and i just had to share it with you all

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A seminary professor was vacationing with his wife in Gatlinburg , TN.     One morning, they were eating breakfast at a little restaurant, hoping to  enjoy a quiet, family meal. While they were waiting for their food, they noticed a distinguished looking, white-haired man moving from table to  table, visiting with the guests. The professor leaned over and whispered to his wife, 'I hope he doesn't come over here.'


But sure enough, the man
did come over to their table.

'Where are you folks from?' he asked in a friendly voice.

' Oklahoma ,' they answered.

'Great to have you here in Tennessee ,' the stranger said. 'What do you do
for a living?'

'I teach at a seminary,' he replied.

'Oh, so you teach preachers how to preach, do you? Well, I've got a really
great story for you.' And with that, the gentleman pulled up a chair and
sat down at the table with the couple.

The professor groaned and thought to himself, 'Great Just what I need
...another preacher story!'

The man started, 'See that mountain over there? ( pointing out the
re staurant window). Not far from the base of that mountain, there was a
boy born to an unwed mother. He had a hard time growing up, because every
place he went, he was always asked the same question, 'Hey boy, Who's your
daddy?' Whether he was at school, in the grocery store or drug store,
people would ask the same question, 'Who's yo ur daddy?'

He would hide at recess and lunchtime from other students. He would avoid
going into stores because that question hurt him so bad. 'When he was
about 12 years old, a new preacher came to his church. He would always go
in late and slip out early to avoid hearing the question,
'Who's your daddy?'

But one day, the new preacher said the benediction so fast that he got
caught and had to walk out with the crowd.

Just about the time he got to the back door, the new preacher, not knowing
anything about him, put his hand on his shoulder and asked him, 'Son,
who's your daddy?'
The whole church go t deathly quiet. He could feel every eye in the church
looking at him. Now everyone would finally know the answer to the
question, 'Who's your daddy?'

'This new preacher, though, sensed the situation around him and using
discernment that only the Holy Spirit could give, said the following to
that scared little boy.. 'Wait a minute! I know who you are! I see the
family resemblance now. You are a child of God.'

With that he patted the boy on his shoulder and said, 'Boy, you've got a
great inheritance. Go and claim it.'

'With that, the boy smiled for the first time in a long time and walked
out the door a changed person. He was never the same again. Whenever
anybody asked him, 'Who's your Daddy?' he'd just tell them, 'I'm a Child
of God
.''

The distinguished gentleman got up from the table and said, 'Isn't that a
great story?'

The professor responded that it really was a great story!

As t he man turned to leave, he said, 'You know, if that new preacher
hadn't told me that I was one of God's children, I probably never would
have amounted to anything!' And he walked away.

The seminary professor and his wife were stunned. He called the waitress
over &asked her, 'Do you know who that man was -- the one who just left
that was sitting at our table?'

The waitress grinned and said, 'Of c ourse. Everybody here knows him.
That's Ben Hooper. He's the former governor of Tennessee !'

Someone in your life today needs a reminder that they're one of God's
children
!

'The grass withers and the flowers fall, but the word of God stands
forever.' ~~Isaiah

YOU'RE ONE OF GOD'S CHILDREN!!! HAVE A GREAT DAY!

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1918/2008 90 years of remembrance
Nov 08, 2008 | 6:58PM

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my son
Nov 02, 2008 | 1:00PM

hpqscan0001.jpg picture by siandee                                                                               BEFORE HE WAS HAD BY THE GOULS

hpqscan0003.jpg picture by siandee                                                                                ONCE THEY GOT HIM

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New drug in Schools...
Oct 05, 2008 | 2:53PM

New drug in Schools...

 Please pass this on even if you do not have kids in school. Parents should know about this killer drug. Grandparents, send it to your familys and friends. This is a new drug known as 'strawberry quick '. There is a very scary thing going on in the schools right now that we all need to be aware of. There is a type of crystal meth going around that looks like strawberry pop rocks (the candy that sizzles and 'pops' in your mouth). It also smells like strawberry and it is being handed out to kids in school yards. They are calling it strawberry meth or strawberry quick. Kids are ingesting this thinking that it is candy and being rushed off to the hospital in dire condition. It also comes in chocolate, peanut butter, cola, cherry, grape and orange. Please instruct your children not to accept candy from strangers and even not to accept candy that looks like this from a friend (who may have been given it and believe d it is candy) and to take any that they may have to a teacher, principal, etc. immediately. Pass this email on to as many people as you can (even if they don't have kids) so that we can raise awareness and hopefully prevent any tragedies from occurring. Click on the link below, it is very informative!! Us Parents need to know this!! http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,271215,00.html

please go to fox news to read more

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