Sorry I didn't follow up on my last entry but my father was doing much better and I really thought he was going to be fine. I had a 4 day live in job Oct 28-Nov 1. I came home to a message on the answering machine from him. I called right away and he does have lung cancer :( He is not going to be treated, has said no to chemo (I sure don't blame him) and no surgery. His biggest fear is having these things done and turning into a vegetable, if that makes sense and having to go to a nursing home. He wants to die at home and my sisters are over all the time helping. So it is not good news and nothing more can be done. I am still kind of in shock. It doesn't sound like he has much time left.